Tuesday, April 23, 2013


Neelam has a single pointedness to bring us back to our truth of this moment.  
Her pointing never forgets the kindness and tenderness that is her nature.  
She knows unequivocally that this kindness is first deserved by ourselves, from ourselves.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Buddhist Thought is often compared with Non-Dual Writings

It could also pay to compare them for their differences. Buddhism has precepts to rigorously follow and a morality and honesty. The non-dual is more based on an experience of peace and open space, even before any notion of a me as an individual. 

Without a distinct individual identification, precepts and a morality might seem like they are just made up concepts. They are distinctions created in man's mind. Who even knows how they were created because most of them are our inheritance and they were here before we remember. We simply adhered to them, knowingly or not. As they relate to the peace and open space, they are merely excess baggage and clutter. Many in the non-dual world kindly regard these Buddhist tenants as a sort of a kindergarten, or starting place that somehow gets you into a condition where you can find that spaciousness for yourself. 

Let's consider a text which we all know, and see what we can make of it:

"When I see that I am nothing, that is wisdom."
"When I see that I am everything, that is love."
"In between these two, the whole of my life flows."

At first sight we seem to have two things going on here. This could be explained away and called paradox and such. But most important and irregardless of any explanation, is the interpretation given by the most common of listeners. The western observer (who is already in love with objectification), is going to twist and turn trying to deny that they see two states. I believe that we can see both non-duality and Buddhism within this quotation. Let's take a look. 

1. The "wisdom in seeing nothingness" supports the Buddhist precept of non-attachment. But the non-dual adherent might be creating a "something" called a no-thing. What else can he/she do? Two thoughts will always create two things, that's how it works. Another solution is how long can you go without a thought? You definitely cannot force them out, and thoughts are part of getting around in a normal day. At best you're left with the two things, which you don't have to identify with. Whatever that could mean to each one of us?

2. "When I see that I am everything, that is love", now we seem to have two paths, one for the Jnana and one for the Bhakta. So maybe individuals are suited for different approaches, and I guess that it's said that they might end up with the same spacious viewpoint. Buddhism does have a precept of expressing compassion, which leads to love, so it acknowledges this statement too.

3. So here we have the non-dual listener (let's consider the common listener again, since they far outnumber the true knower probably by many thousands of times), who sees these two end points, which he/she aspires to as the highest truths. Since they do appear opposite, I guess you take your choice. The western man/woman loves to shoot for the best, so one of these two will definitely be the goal. All the messy stuff in between is left as only what needs to be overcome in order to get one of those results.

You can notice in your life, that rarely if ever do you find yourself as nothing, and more rarely as everything. There might be a time of warped experiences or deadened senses, and if those experiences are classified as pleasant, perhaps they will be taken as a proof that you can live in this bliss. But in general you will never find yourself as one nor the other. So is it safe to say that for all practical purposes and for the vast majority of human beings, these two principles are strictly concepts not verified by life?

4. OK, for a minute let's jump out of these three statements to discuss The Buddhist insistence on the practice of their precepts, before we return to attempt to bring it all together. When western man considers practice he/she thinks of mimicking a pre-set thought/behavior pattern with the idea that it might eventually rub off and become my nature. You might even make the excuse that it already is my nature, but for whatever reason, it doesn't appear that way yet. Volumes can be written trying to close that gap. Many Buddhists might take it the same way too, especially with store bought Buddhism or book learned Buddhism. There just are not the roots to innately know that I cannot behave in any other way, (than the precepts). So then trying and efforting and purification will be stressed.

5. But what is the main common ingredient of all of these Buddhist practices, non-killing, non-stealing, non sexual abuse, non-lying, loving kindness, compassion, charity, appreciative joy, equanimity? Every last one of these depends on, and comes onto your radar only when there is the other. It's in the family, in the community, in society. There is no such thing as honesty without someone to be honest with. Or let's say that closet honesty isn't honest. It is a flight of fancy. So every one of these precepts have to be expressed. That is always stressed in Buddhism. 

To express anything you must be engaged with your fellow human. You can express, "good doggie" without a human, but what does that mean in your life? Deep insight into Buddhism is only about being engaged in society. You are offering yourself to society and the good of your fellow man. 

It can't be all that real in a cloistered society. In western walled and gated communities Buddhism degenerates into endless purification and useless distinctions like not sitting on elevated chairs or sleeping on high beds. "Maybe my cushion is too fat, am I trying to be better than my brother?" Purify, Purify. But holding the other in love means everything on a horrific battle ground of a country like Myanmar. It's not hating a government battalion who just burned out an innocent village and laid land mines around it. It is a deep realization that there cannot be a successful struggle to end all struggle, which is an expression of thinking that is really unapproachable to the western mindset. It's "Get Real Buddhism".

6. Do you need to be engaged to feel that you are nothing? Is there engagement needed to feel that you are everything? I think not, that actually engagement is seen as a hindrance to experience these rarified states. So perhaps the major difference between Buddhism and non-duality is that one insists on works in society and the other insists that there is no doer, no one to do for or toward, and nothing that ever gets done. No engagement, flat out. (Of course our lives seem so rarely to work in that way?) 

Engagement is an experience, with or without thoughts. Non-engagement is an experience, but only based on the thoughts of avoiding engagement and avoiding expression. It's only based on rarified dreams and concepts. Every thought does bring some experience, but how practical toward this life will it be?

7. OK back to our quote, we were left with the two end points, the two highest truths, and both are merely concepts. All the in between parts were the hindrance, or just the hump to get over to see these truths. Of course "In between these two my whole life flows", is the only thing that absolutely and always IS real. You can't pin it down though, because "it flows". So no concept can catch it.

This flowing reality is the only part of our quotation that is 100% engaged Buddhism. Don't be afraid, it is only your life. Sure it is risky. And it may take a non westerner living in the forest to really get what a blessing it is.

Posted by Richard Miller Feb 5th 2013

Monday, January 21, 2013

Abuse and Victimhood, a Feminine Perspective

Canela Michelle Meyers and I discover Shamanic qualities of intensity.  
Such force cannot come out of inner volition, but seems to arrive from the outside.  
This is what we call abuse.  Women and girls have long been subject to this treatment in distorted sectors of our society.

Part of us believes that this treatment causes irreparable damage.  It seems logical.  
We don't want to have anything to do with it.  Yet we appear to be unscathed?
These subjects are little talked about, without blame.  
Certainly non-duality has its skillful means of jumping over anything distasteful, as long as it is reported for the other.  
When it is laid on us, we probably fall out of the non-duality crowd.

Listen to this wisdom.  If you have these nagging memories that recreate themselves and constantly seek justification in meaning and reasons, this video. along with part 2, are for you.

Sunday, January 6, 2013

Respect for the “my (separate) Experience,” while Knowing the “One Human Essence” …

Unmani's creative expression of Love shines through in our meeting.  A relaxation unfolds while talking with her, and In this intimate dialogue we explore what is real right now.  Her words can ‘crack’ you open. 

Unmani says “I'm not interested in the kind of Non-duality in which you imagine yourself as a witness which is distant and removed from the ordinary personal play of life.”  Isn’t this what many of us often do?  If you look closely, something is being separated out as "not real", and that must be what we are most uncomfortable with.

The feminine expression of non-duality rests in the Silence.  This is what melts the belief in separation, just as all the round-about words try to do. This Silence has such a penetrating presence.  It is the destroyer of illusion and anything that is not real and true. It is not soft and fluffy, and it is not dry and logical.  It loves so much, that it chops the heads off both.

Monday, December 24, 2012

From you I receive, to you I give ... Elle Collier Re

There is great power in truly meeting another.  

But we have imposed barriers between us, perhaps in the grappling of our expression of individuality?   
Up until now we're only partly conscious of each other.   
What happens when for a moment we drop all barriers?  
Maybe in our deepest heart it's what we yearn for, to share the gift of our self/essence.   
Then what we wish to receive from the other is simply ‘them’.

This meeting with Elle Collier Re has been a real holiday gift for me.  I hope that you will find it as my holiday gift for you. 
In my heart I feel that it is something very special.

This is a very unique dialogue from all those that I have heard. Elle doesn't merely deliver a spiritual line but she recreates her thoughts in every moment. What is delivered is so fresh and so full of  new discovery. It is amazing.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Gina Lake, gentle pointers to truth …

What great and honourable intentions I felt from Gina Lake. 
She held me in her spiritual arms and I felt at sweet home. 
Core truths are such good reminders, and help bring us to our true intention for this life.  
The open space of good feeling is such an important result of our sharing and interacting. 
Gina knows this to a tee.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

I talk with Isira, Authenticity of the Heart

What a pleasure it was for me to rest in the presence of Isira. Let alone to show case our Australian representative of a penetrating clarity from the female perspective. 
I found Isira expressed so much helpful insight in this talk.

No detachment here, as her responses were always practical to this life as well as insightful to our upward awaking.